HEART ON FIRE
3 or 6-month Somatic Depth 1:1 mentoring for high-functioning women with big hearts and even bigger visions
Move from earning your place to expanding your capacity to be fully seen, deeply cherished and paid well for your gifts
In three to six months, we build the nervous system that can hold your new life: you take the step you've been circling for years, you stay true to your needs even when they're tested, and you stop disappearing the moment resistance hits.
A mediocre life isn't what your soul signed up for.
You know you're here for a big mission. There's a vision for your life and a deep longing in your heart, whether it lives in your business, your family or your relationship.
You're intelligent, high-functioning, talented, sensitive, ambitious and deep.
Deep within, you know you're here for more - love, income, intimacy, clients, creativity, aliveness.
But for a long time, you've dimmed your light and your truth to fit in - afraid of how it would land if you said it fully out loud.
You say yes when your body says no. You’ve learned to scan the room from an early age. To put everyone’s needs first, making sure everyone’s happy, not being too visible. But in the process, you’ve abandoned parts of yourself.
You play smaller than what your soul signed up for: watering down your magic, postponing going all-in for your dreams, and staying in relationships that don't meet you in your emotional depth.
You've done the therapy. You understand your patterns and where they come from, you know your attachment style and your nervous system states. It helped you understand yourself, maybe even move out of crisis. It hasn't helped you actually go for the thing your soul is calling you toward.
Yet every time you get close to the big step, you freeze out of fear, doubt yourself and second-guess whether it's really right. Or you're all in for a few weeks, and the moment resistance hits, you withdraw and hide again.
Because you are still trying to impress, be loved and be chosen by the same people who hurt you.
You try to heal more, be more successful, be more feminine, to get belonging from people who cannot give it to you. You explain yourself to an audience who will never sign up. You try to fit into a workplace that doesn't share your values and doesn't nourish you. You try to make the avoidant guy love you.
This pattern is exactly what keeps you where you are.
I’m here to tell you:
You don’t have to earn your place at a table your soul has long outgrown.
You’ve outgrown the life you build inside your head, but your nervous system hasn’t caught up yet.
Your nervous system is still operating from the old identity of playing small because it feels safer.
That's functional freeze: functioning on the outside, and inside swinging between collapse, overwhelm and doing all the things until you burn out.
If you're ready to shift this at the root, reignite your inner fire and expand your capacity to receive more intimacy, impact and income you're the woman I created HEART ON FIRE for.Let’s put you and your dreams back at the center stage, trust life more that your fear and take the bold risks and actions your soul has been calling for
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You are in the right place if you…
→ know you're here for something big, but feel fearful and paralyzed when it comes to taking action: you water down your message, postpone the offer, or feel secretly relieved when the connection call gets cancelled
→ are done performing to be loved and chosen, and still catch yourself putting everyone's needs before your own
→ want to be cherished and met in your depth, and keep choosing (or staying with) people who can't meet you there
→ want to create real impact in your work but still treat your soul mission like a sidehustle, and still undercharge, offer the discount no one asked for and rewrite the post for the fifth time until your voice is digestible
→ swing between all-in and hiding: weeks of fire and big plans, then weeks where you can't even look at your vision
→ crave more pleasure, sensuality and creative power as your natural state, and can feel where shame still holds your expression back
A woman who stops earning her place and opens her heart to life changes more than her own life. She inspires other women to do the same — one nervous system, one voice, one woman at a time.
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We work in your rhythm, on purpose. This container is built to grow your capacity to be seen, to feel, to receive and to take risks for the life you crave – we go slow, titrated and deep
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Your Pleasure, womb wisdom and embodiment are not “woo-woo” or optional – you'll build your biggest work in the most connected body you've ever lived in
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Clear structure and co-regulated guidance – and your intuition back online as a compass you can actually trust. No more vague "just follow your feelings" or guesswork.
Ready for your nervous system to catch up with your big vision?
01 — BUILD CAPACITY
A nervous system that can hold your big vision
Everything begins in the body. Through somatic work we meet your survival patterns where they were formed – below conscious control, where no insight has ever reached them.
You build the emotional and nervous system capacity to hold what your next level actually asks of you: the hard conversation, launching the business or project, sitting with the silence after you hit publish without collapsing or withdrawing.
02 — CHOOSE YOURSELF
Connection without self-abandonment
From that capacity, we heal the root: the attachment patterns beneath your people-pleasing, over-giving and saying yes when you mean no. Not through willpower – through repair.
You learn to stay connected to yourself while in connection with others. Clear boundaries, honest needs and real intimacy finally coexist because your heart no longer needs the armor to feel safe.
03 — SPEAK THE TRUTH
…and go for the life that's calling you
The performing ends, and you inhabit who you actually are: your voice, your sensuality, your power emerge from feeling safe and alive within – laughing louder, sharing the offer, working in your soul gifts at your actual size.
And something deeper settles: You become so anchored in your truth that you’re unshakable: the outside can move without moving you – and from that space you take the risks your life has been asking of you.
Your dreams have outgrown the level your nervous system is still operating from
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Your identity, your voice, your love, your wealth — they all begin in your body.
What stands between you and the life that truly feels like yours isn't the next strategy or understanding your trauma better. It's the fear of rejection when you speak your needs. The anger you swallow. The way you abandon yourself in connection, to be chosen.
These patterns aren't who you are. You learned them where staying small was safer than being your quirky, wild, witchy self — and your body still chooses belonging over growth every time growth feels unsafe.That's why the ceiling you keep hitting isn't a strategy or knowledge gap. It's the level your nervous system currently knows how to hold: this much visibility, this much money, this much closeness. And every time you approach that edge, your system pulls you back into what it knows: undercharging, softening, over-delivering, saying yes when you meant no.
That's what we change at the root: in your nervous system, emotions, attachment. We build the capacity to move past what once overwhelmed you. Until speaking up, charging what your work is worth and asking what you need stop registering as danger.
Because being cherished, your soul work, being seen, these aren't things you chase. They find you when your heart is open enough to receive them. That's what capacity becomes: magnetism that isn't performed, steadiness through the wobbles, trust that replaces control.
Let your good girl walk in — and the woman who takes up space walk out
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daniela’s story ♡
“A session with Clara can change your entire life.”
When I came to Clara, I was in the middle of an emotional breakdown — traumatised, uprooted, and full of fear. I had tried conventional therapy before, but it never truly moved anything. With Clara, it was different.
In just one session, I was able to release a toxic attachment I had held onto for three years. Something shifted deeply inside me. Suddenly, there was peace. No more pain. No more resentment. And I realised: I can give myself what I had been desperately seeking from others. That was liberation.
Clara’s work goes deep — and it works. I feel safe in my body again, connected to my intuition, grounded, clear, and powerful. I now know who I am, what I want, and that I can trust myself.
This work changed my life. Truly.
— Daniela W.
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denise’s story ♡
“Nothing I tried reached the root — until this work.”
Before working with Clara, I was living in constant stress and freeze. Anxiety, panic, and dysregulation shaped my everyday life — especially after becoming a mother. I had tried everything: therapy, coaching, retreats, years of inner work. It helped me understand, but nothing truly changed.
With Clara, something shifted at the core. For the first time, my body no longer felt like a dangerous place. I feel safe inside myself.
I’ve become a calmer, more present mother. My relationships are deeper. I can communicate boundaries, move through triggers, and return to my center. This work has impacted every area of my life — personally, relationally, and professionally.
What Clara holds is rare: embodied truth, nervous system depth, and a space so attuned that transformation becomes inevitable.
This was the missing piece.
— Denise Y.
The Modules
A closer look at how this work unfolds
I — HEART BEAT
A nervous system that can hold your vision
Somatic Rewiring — Build the grounded foundation in your nervous system: safety, connection and slowness
Cycle Breaking — Release chronic overwhelm, functional freeze and the overwork–shutdown loop
Emotional Capacity — Learn to feel your emotions and move through them instead of letting them run your life. Let pleasure, sensation and life-force back into your body as resource
II — HEART COHERENCE
The end of self-abandonment
Shadow Deep Dive — Bring home the inner parts that learned to adapt, please and stay small & build capacity to take up space as the real you
Relate & Co-Regulate — Transform your attachment patterns in relationship: staying with yourself while staying in connection – allowing closeness without armor
Brave Boundaries — Put your needs, desires and boundaries first and stay true to yourself, even when being misunderstood or disappointing others
III — HEART EXPANSION
Own your truth & become who you are beneath the story
Healing Shame — Own your sensitivity, mysticism, feminine energy and quirky, witchy self as strengths and rewrite the story of who you're allowed to be
Worth & Identity — Your worth stops being something you earn. Your body catches up with who you've become, so you can want out loud and go for it
Embodied Visibility — Find your voice and speak your truth in hard conversations, in your relationships, in your business
IV — HEART LEADERSHIP*
Your soul work in form
*for those on a business path
Zone of Genius — Distill your specialization and build offers that land, rooted in what only you can hold. No more performing for people you've outgrown
Resonant Marketing — Create content from integrity that lands with the right audience and brings in consistent sales through deep connection with your people
Sovereign Leader — Lead your clients from sovereignty instead of rescuing, charge what your work is worth and take the bold moves your soul work is asking of you
What’s included
6-12 Somatic Deep Dive Sessions
2 sessions per month (90 minutes)
Sessions are tailored to you — we dive into your patterns, nervous system rewiring, processing overwhelming emotions, needs, boundaries and taking action steps towards your goals
Messenger Support (Mo-Thu)
Light voice + text support between sessions (4 days/week)
For on the spot coaching through wobbles, questions and deepening the process between our sessions
Soma Sanctuary Online Portal
3-6 month access to the practice portal
8+ hours of video content, somatic & ceremonial work, guided practices, rituals and in-depth workbooks (6 month access incl. updated content)
Business Support (if needed)
Feedback on your offers, messaging and content via email
Access to business resources and workbooks: creating offers that sell, messaging that lands, and the specialization work that brings in consistent sales.
Investment and payment plans shared in the application form
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sabines story ♡
“This was the most important and best investment in myself I have ever made.”
Through working with Clara, I feel like myself again. I feel connected, aligned, and able to live my purpose. I feel safe in my body and capable of meeting any challenge.
I was able to release so many old patterns and integrate past trauma. I never imagined this kind of change could be possible in just three months.
I have regained my joy for life, and I feel empowered to actively shape my life and live my dreams.
My relationships have reached a new level of intimacy, because I am now able to express my feelings, needs, and boundaries with clarity.
Thank you, Clara, for your profound work. I truly feel like a new person — and fully myself again.
— Sabine R.
Meet your mentor
I'm Clara — the mentor you hire when your dreams have outgrown the level your nervous system is still operating from.
I’m a Somatic Experiencing® Practitioner, trauma therapist and coach working at the intersection of nervous system healing, attachment and emotional depth.
For almost a decade, I've worked with deeply feeling, intuitive women who are done shrinking themselves for love, success or belonging and are ready to put their dreams at the center stage of their life again.
My own path taught me to stop hiding my too much. And it taught me what no training could: everything I want is on the other side of my fears. So I built the capacity to hold both my fears and desires, moved to the other side of the world and built a life and business that truly feel like mine.
That's my work with you: dissolving the armor around your heart and building a nervous system that can hold your next level — the love, the money, the visibility, the size of the life you're actually here for.
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“To be ourselves causes us to be exiled by many others, and yet to comply with what others want causes us to be exiled from ourselves.”
— Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Women Who Run With the Wolves
ARE YOU READY TO STOP EARNING YOUR PLACE — AND START LIVING LIKE IT’S ALREADY YOURS?
→ Choose yourself and take the risks your heart has been aching for. The step you've been circling for years gets taken, and you're still standing afterwards.
→ Stand up for yourself and stay present in conflict. You hold your boundary, let the other person be disappointed, and go to sleep without replaying it.
→ Be met as deeply as you give. You say what you need before resentment builds, let yourself be cherished, and let go of the people who can't meet you there.
→ Experience more pleasure, rest and joy every day, and keep them when life gets stressful, instead of dropping them first.
→ Make decisions from the woman you're becoming. You raise the price, leave the room that doesn't nourish you, and your body stays steady while you do it.
→ A life and work that support each other: feet in the earth, donkeys (or babies) on the homestead, and success that finally matches your dedication, intelligence and effort.
→ Stay with yourself when resistance hits. Your vision stops being a few-weeks project and becomes the ground you build on.
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This IS for you if you…
✓ are ready to be honest with yourself: to look at the patterns underneath your explanations, even when it's uncomfortable, with me holding you through it
✓ take ownership of your process: you show up for the sessions, the practices and the real-life steps between them. This work happens with you, not to you
✓ feel the call to something bigger and more in your life – your soul work, your voice, your full size – and you're ready to actually answer it, in your own rhythm
It’s probably not your space if you…
✗ you're looking for a quick fix, plug-and-play strategy or outsource responsibility – this work builds lasting foundations, and foundations take presence and commitment
✗ you want to stay in your head: collecting concepts, analyzing patterns, understanding one more framework – this work happens in the body and your emotions
✗ you're in an active crisis right now. This is not psychotherapy – although I'm trained as a psychotherapist and bring that depth. This program is for the woman ready to go where she hasn’t gone before – somatic, emotional, identity and mindset.
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