RETURN TO RADIANCE
A 10-week live somatic group experience for recovering people-pleasers ready to stop shrinking and come back to their innate worth
Move from functional freeze to putting yourself back at the center, flirt with life again and go all-in for what you truly want
We start Oct 20 th
You're standing in the fire of your own becoming.
The old ways aren't working anymore, and the new ones haven't emerged fully yet.
It feels like you've lost your sparkle. Maybe you're tired and exhausted from your own life and how things have unfolded over the past months or years.
You're wondering where the ambitious, quirky, witchy woman went.
The one who had wild dreams for her life, deep passions, and an insatiable aliveness and hunger inside of her.
The one who climbed trees and mountains, danced at midnight in the rain, and laughed loud enough to turn heads.
But somewhere along the way, a more socially acceptable version took the center.
A woman who puts the needs and dreams of others before her own. Who says yes when she means no and calls it sacrifice. The good girl who shrank to make everyone else comfortable. Who keeps her voice down and doesn't shine too brightly, who adapts and blends in instead of standing out. Who manages everyone's emotions instead of speaking her truth. Who hands her worth over to the approval of a partner, a job, money, her family. Who started accepting breadcrumbs instead of satisfying her appetite for more, in her relationships, her work, her life.And maybe there's a voice inside you saying: “I should be grateful. Others have it worse. I don't want to be too much.”
But there's a sadness in you that you can't quite name. A longing for a life that isn't just okay, but feels like your own. Fulfilled. Powerful. Raw. Magnetic. Where life feels exciting again, and you're fully living it, savoring every moment.
You've been following a script that was never written for you.
You're sensitive, creative, you feel more than most people do. And it takes an enormous amount of energy to push yourself through a life that isn't yours.
These patterns carried you this far. They kept you safe and they kept you loved. They are not the ones who carry you into what comes next.
Underneath all of it, she's still there. And so is the fire.
It's time to put her back at the center:
Magnetic, truthful, deeply connected to her own heart and her deepest desires.
The one who dares to dream big and take up space with her voice, her mission, her love, her truth. Who knows what she wants and goes for it, instead of being held back by fear and doubt. Who takes the risks for the love, the life, the work that's calling her.It's time to choose yourself.
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This is your place if you…
→ are the one who manages it all: the mental load, the logistics, everyone's feelings - and go blank when someone asks what you need. You know your boundaries in theory. Saying them out loud in the moment is another thing entirely.
→ have been the good girl for as long as you can remember. The easy one, the reliable one, the one who doesn't make trouble. But you’re starting to realize that you’ve outgrown swallowing your own needs & desires at the cost of connection
→ feel everyone else's emotions before your own: you can read a room in seconds, but your own inner world shows up as thought loops, tension and a low hum of worry or anxiety instead of taking space to turn inwards and truly feel
→ are exhausted from pushing yourself through a life that doesn’t feel like yours: You've been doing what you're “supposed” to do, and something in you has known for a long time that you're built for more - magic, beauty, success and aliveness
→ lose yourself in conflict. You go quiet, you smooth it over, you agree to something you'll resent for weeks. And you replay the conversation for days afterwards
→ outsource your worth to the partner, the job, the money, the number of people who need you - and it disconnects you from yourself
→ want more closeness than you ask for. You want to be truly met, cherished, desired, but you're the one holding the relationship together instead. You crave more intimacy, depth and pleasure but are scared that the other cannot hold you there.
→ treat your own life like a side project. Everyone else's plans, needs and timelines come first, and yours wait for a better moment that never arrives.
→ have dreams you stopped saying out loud because you already talk yourself out of them and list all the reasons they wouldn't work. And you're ready to stop letting fear make the decision for you.
RETURN TO RADIANCE
Is a 10-week trauma-informed group mentoring experience for sensitive, high-functioning women who have spent their lives holding it all together, and who are ready to stop shrinking and put themselves back at the center of their own lives.
Over ten weeks we go to the root of the patterns that taught you to make yourself small, and we change these patterns where they actually live – in your nervous system, in your body, in the attachment strategies you built long before you had words for any of it.
A woman taking her place and standing in her worth also heals the generations of women that came before her and that are coming after her.
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This is a trauma-informed, somatic space, meaning we go slow and in your own rhythm.
We move in doses your body can integrate, so nothing floods you and nothing gets forced. You won't have to push through, perform, or add another thing to your load. This container is built to give you energy back, not take more of it.
So you can actually hold the depth when it arrives.
This work is subtle. It isn't about becoming louder, it's about the fine shifts in awareness that change how you move through a room.
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You've been the one who holds everyone. Here you're held. Your body learns something new in real time, in a co-regulated field of women who see you — and that is a repair no amount of solo work can give you. You never have to perform here. You'll be met at whatever size you arrive in.
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I’m not here to give you just practices and tools to calm down, tap your anger away or cathartically release by screaming into a pillow.
In this space, you move from feeling overwhelmed, anxious, stressed and doubting to creating the internal capacity feeling so deeply rooted in your worth, your dignity and your magnetic essence that it creates ripples in your life.
We do deep somatic work, attachment repair, building emotional capacity, feeling your needs and boundaries in the body, speaking and holding them.
You leave with the internal shifts and skill you can use for the rest of your life. No vague "just follow your feelings." You'll know exactly what you're doing and why it works.
01 — SAFETY & CAPACITY
Out of survival, back into your body
Everything starts here. We meet the survival patterns where they were formed, long before you had language for any of it, and we work in the place no insight has ever reached: your nervous system, below conscious control.
You'll learn how your system actually works, how your attachment strategies formed, and why you learned to settle for breadcrumbs when what you needed was a full meal. And then we give your body something it never had — the experience of being met in your needs, in real time, in a field that holds you. That's what rewires. Not understanding it. Living it.
02 — UNFAWNING & ATTACHMENT
The end of self-abandonment
You'll learn to feel the emotions you've been managing for years — the fear, the anger, the grief, the shame — and to let them move through you and deliver their message, instead of settling into your body as tension and exhaustion. You'll learn to feel your needs and your boundaries somatically, to allow yourself to have them, and to hold them even when someone is disappointed. And you'll learn to speak your truth and stay anchored in it when you're misunderstood or rejected, choosing yourself anyway.
This is the unfawning. The place where you stop managing everyone else and come home to yourself.
03 — INNATE WORTH & GRACE
Becoming the woman you always were
Pleasure comes back as something you're allowed to have every day, not as a reward for having earned it. Your worth settles into something innate that no longer wobbles when someone withdraws their approval. Your heart opens, and with it the capacity to actually receive love, abundance, support.
We meet the woman underneath all of it: deeply connected to her own heart, magnetic because she's finally in there, daring to go for her dreams. Your expansion becomes your new normal.
Ready for your inner glow up?
True magnetism comes from a woman who has confronted the parts of herself she was taught to hide, and refused to abandon herself in the process.
Your nervous system organises around safety, and safety has meant making sure everyone else is happy and calm. Reading the room, softening the edges, monitoring every part of you that might be too much. That's where your life force has been going, and it's why you're tired in a way sleep doesn't touch.
Your way back to your truth, your desires, your own posture isn't through more mindset work, affirmations or visualisation. It's through meeting the parts that had to adapt where they were formed: in your nervous system, your body, your subconscious.
From there you build the capacity to be with discomfort. To set boundaries and walk away from what isn't aligned. To feel the emotions you've been managing for years in a way that restores you instead of overwhelming you. The opposite of people pleasing isn't never letting anyone in. It's staying soft and open while you hold your boundary.
You come in contact with your needs and desires again, and choose yourself even when it means being misunderstood or rejected.
That's what makes you magnetic. Walking through the fire, facing your fears and your shadows, and coming out the other side in contact with your own heart, your truth and inner worth.
The Modules
A closer look at our weekly calls
I — ROOTING
Your nervous system, your patterns, where they began
Week 1 · Your North Star: Uncovering what you actually want, what’s holding you back, and meeting the voices that say it isn't possible
Week 2 · Your nervous system: Why your body keeps choosing safety over the life you want, and how capacity is built.
Week 3 · Where the fawning began: How your attachment strategies formed somatically, and why you settled for breadcrumbs.
Week 4 · The parts that run the show: The voices that call you too much, creating the corrective experience your system never had.
II — RECLAMATION
Your emotions, your needs, your voice
Week 5 · Feel the feeling: Learning to feel the overwhelming emotions instead of thinking about them, receive their message, and let them move through you, so they stop settling into your body as tension and exhaustion.
Week 6 · Your needs & boundaries: Your yes and your no, felt in the body and held even when it disappoints or others misunderstand
Week 7 · Speaking your truth: Saying the true thing and staying anchored in it, even when you're misunderstood, even when it costs you what you’ve learned as “connection”. Learning to choose yourself.
III — RADIANCE
Your heart, your pleasure, your worth, your dreams
Week 8 · Tender heart: Meet yourself somatically in the vulnerable space of your pain, wishes and desire - let pleasure return as your innate state
Week 9 · Your worth is innate: Worth somatically restored as something that belongs to you because you exist, not because of an outside circumstance
Week 10 · Go for it: Stepping into the identity of the woman who expects more, trust life deeply and going for what you came here for from your zone of genius
What awaits you inside
RETURN TO RADIANCE
Oct 20 - Dec 22 | Live Calls Tue, 7-9pm AEST | 9-11am CET
THE ROOM: 10 x LIVE CALLS
2-hr live calls
Replays available
Mix of teaching, somatic embodiment practice and group coaching
THE INNER GROUP
Telegram Space for sharing, questions, wobbles & celebrations
Weekly journal prompts, audios or mini challenges
Practising being witnessed in the small moments, not just the big ones
THE CIRCLE – BEING HELD
Accountability buddy to track your progress
Co-regulation: your body learns safety in relationship, not alone
Seen, met and celebrated by women who understand exactly where you are
THE PORTAL
Monthly workbook that takes each module deeper
Somatic practices to come back to when you need them
Access to all replays and materials for at least one year
It's time to choose yourself and put your dreams at the center again
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denise’s story ♡
“Nothing I tried reached the root — until this work.”
Before working with Clara, I was living in constant stress and freeze. Anxiety, panic, and dysregulation shaped my everyday life — especially after becoming a mother. I had tried everything: therapy, coaching, retreats, years of inner work. It helped me understand, but nothing truly changed.
With Clara, something shifted at the core. For the first time, my body no longer felt like a dangerous place. I feel safe inside myself.
I’ve become a calmer, more present mother. My relationships are deeper. I can communicate boundaries, move through triggers, and return to my center. This work has impacted every area of my life — personally, relationally, and professionally.
What Clara holds is rare: embodied truth, nervous system depth, and a space so attuned that transformation becomes inevitable.
This was the missing piece.
— Denise Y.
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ursula’s story ♡
“I can feel everything now — and it feels alive.”
I came to Clara in the middle of a heavy conflict with our adult daughter, afraid of losing contact with her indefinitely. I was functioning. I couldn't see how much of that was survival.
What became visible: freeze feels completely normal to me. It even feels safe, although it is anything but. Being allowed to see that without judging it and building the capacity to feel alive in my body and my emotions changed everything.
Today I notice much faster what is actually happening in me. When I let the fear in, the love and the joy are there in the same intensity. And then I can regulate back to what my system can carry.
The contact with our daughter has moved to eye level. We communicate honestly. The love has found it
I trust my intuition. I follow my impulses. I stay with what is here now instead of drifting into every what-if.
— Ursula T.
Meet your mentor
I'm Clara. A Somatic Experiencing® Practitioner, trauma therapist and mentor, working at the intersection of nervous system capacity, attachment rewiring and allowing your emotional depth.
For almost a decade, I've worked with deeply feeling, intuitive women who are done shrinking themselves for love, success or belonging, and are ready to put themselves back at the center of their own lives.
I know that place from the inside. I spent years anxious and doubting myself, holding everything together, waiting until it felt safe to want what I actually wanted.
What changed it wasn't more insight, visualization or affirming what I want. It was doing this work at the root, and then acting from it: leaving what wasn't aligned anymore even when it was terrifying, moving to the other side of the world, letting myself have what I wanted instead of earning it first.
What I found on the other side is a worth that doesn't wobble when circumstances do, and a trust in life that holds even through the hard things.
WHAT BECOMES POSSIBLE ON THE OTHER SIDE
→ Stop shrinking your voice, your power, your magic and your truth to keep everyone else comfortable and taking up space with your gifts
→ Feel it all and let it move: the fear, the anger, the grief, the shame — take the message and move on, instead of making decisions from overwhelm
→ Honor your needs and boundaries, know what you want and ask for it: Meeting yourself in the space of desire & allowing others to meet you without the fear of being “too much”
→ Say the true thing in the moments that matter, hold the boundary, and stay with yourself through the discomfort that follows – ending self-abandonment
→ Stand in a worth that doesn't wobble when someone withdraws their approval or circumstances stop cooperating
→ Open your heart to trust life again, flirt with it and allow yourself the love, closeness and pleasure that meets you in your depth and your joy
→ Come back to your radiance: out of survival, fawning and burnout, into your magnetism, creative aliveness and shining your light unapologetic. That’s the real inner glow up
→ Make the bold moves the woman you’re becoming requires of you, and put your dreams back at the center where they belong
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RETURN TO RADIANCE
A 10-week live somatic group experience for recovering people-pleasers ready to stop shrinking & earning love
Move from self-abandonment to flirting with life, deep inner worth, becoming the center of your own life and going all-in for what you truly want.
Ten weeks · starting Oct 20 - DeC 22Calls held in EnglishCall times: Tuesdays, 19:00–21:00 AEST | 09:00–11:00 CET Replays availableYour Investment
Early Bird Price
3x 429€ monthly
or 6x 225€ monthly
or 1197€
Sign up before Sep 30th
Regular Price
3 x 497 € monthly
or 6x 265 € monthly
or 1397 €
FAQ’s
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Therapy gave you understanding, and understanding lives in your mind. Your patterns live in your body, below conscious control, which is why you can name your attachment style and still say yes when you mean no. This work doesn't add more insight. Your body gets new experiences, in real time, in relationship, and that's what actually rewires the pattern.
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You never have to. There's room for you in the hot seat in every module, and it's an invitation, never an expectation.
And it's worth saying that being witnessed is powerful, especially when it feels edgy. That's exactly what we're training here. If you've spent your life being the one who holds everyone, being seen is unfamiliar territory, and your body reads unfamiliar as exposing. What changes over these ten weeks is that being seen starts to feel safe and supportive, from the inside. You take what you're ready for, and by week six you'll probably want more than you thought.
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We work titrated, which means in doses your body can integrate, inside your window of tolerance. Nothing gets forced open and nothing gets left hanging. I'm a Somatic Experiencing® Practitioner and trauma therapist, and I hold this room with nine years of experience behind me. You're held throughout, in the calls and between them.
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Every call is recorded and goes into the portal, and you'll have access for at least a year. If you miss one, bring what comes up into the Telegram circle or the next call. Coming live as often as you can matters, because the group field is part of the medicine, but life happens and this container can hold that.
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No. Some women come as employees, some are self-employed, some are somewhere in between. The patterns we work with show up wherever you live: in your job, your relationship, your family, your body. What changes here changes all of it.
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Return to Radiance is the ground: capacity, attachment repair, needs, voice, worth, in a group of women moving through it together. My 1:1 mentoring goes into your specific life and your soul work in form, individually, over six months. Many women start here. Some go on to work with me privately afterwards.
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In most cases yes, and it often works well alongside. This isn't therapy and it doesn't replace it. If you're in an acute crisis or actively stabilising, this probably isn't the right time, and I'd rather tell you that now than have you arrive in a room that can't give you what you need. If you're unsure, write to me before you book.
Your radiance never left. It just went underground.
You already know what you want. You've known for a long time. What's been missing isn't clarity or courage, it's a body that can carry the wanting without talking you out of it.
That's what these ten weeks build.